I've noticed that my sense of self-worth and happiness seem to depend
on three broad factors, which can also be thought of as spheres of
life.
Vocation, the Outer Sphere
- This includes ministry and work. If my life's mission in the greater
world is going well, and if I'm doing well in my business or career,
then this sphere is in good shape.
Relationships, the Middle Sphere
- This includes family, neighbors, friends, and romantic interests. If
my family is doing well, I'm spending good quality time with my friends,
and I have healthy relationships with good quality women, then all is
well in the Middle Sphere.
Self, the Inner Sphere
- This includes me. If who I am and what I am doing is in close
alignment with who I am supposed to be, then I am at peace with myself
and doing well.
None of these spheres can be healthy without God's
guidance. Only he knows for certain who I am supposed to be, what
relationships I need to help me grow, and what mission I am to
accomplish in life. If I have heard his call then I am able to position
myself in the center and coordinate change where I can, trusting God to
effect change where I cannot.
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